Funerals.......

[2hot2coolme]

Cant stand em, hate to see the dead. Gotta go tommorrow for my dickhead brother-in-laws mom.
She was a very nice person, he's a jag***!

I hope a fistfight don't breakout tommorrow!

[renaissanse man]

I feel a lot better about my family now.Thanks.

[2hot2coolme]

No problem...anytime.

[renaissanse man]

Sorry, I had to say it.My family wrote the book on disfunctional! I agree about funerals... No good memories from them here.

[MikeJ]

2 hot. Can't cool down long enough? Not even for a very nice lady? Every dickhead knows a dickhead, not that you are, but who knows what he thinks of you? Doesn't matter.
Right now this dickhead is trying to deal with the loss of a very nice person....so cut him a little slack. Give a sincere 'sorry for your loss' if you have to talk with him at all. Socialize with the non-dickheads.

[2hot2coolme]

No. this bastard doesnt even know I hate him at this point, actually my sister and him are divorced. From what i've been told he cares about his new girlfriend more than what's happening here.

He's a self centered bastard that only thinks of himself and NOT his three kids he produced, you guys don't know the whole story, and maybe I shouldnt have posted this but this prick makes my blood boil at times.

I heard he has some problems with his heating system, and asked my nephew to ask me if I would come out and take a look at it...yeah right...for 3 times what I would charge anyone else...

[MikeJ]

OK, but if you can't respect the dead, then don't go.

[2hot2coolme]

I really don't want to, really, but my mom wants me to drive her there and my sister thinks I'm being an ass for not going...so I'm going...

[MikeJ]

to be nice. Ok. That is, you are going to be nice, not
going, to be nice.

[MadeinUSA]

The funeral is not about you, it’s about the deceased person. Quit making it about you.

[ct2]

just wait untill you start losing the people in your life that matter , then you will understand what everyone has tried to tell you

[Wild Leg]

Those three kids lost their paternal grandmother.
She was nice to you.
How nice (and important) do you think she was to those kids?

Suck it up, & go be polite.

BE THERE FOR THOSE KIDS!

Funeral day & way beyond.

[rew]

Sounds like you are talking about my younger brother. He is good for nothing. I would go and keep one hand in my pocket with my finger at ready. Every time you see him, or hear him just shoot the rod at him in your pocket. You can even make your way around the room picking out everyone you don't like. You just point at each person and say to yourself ---- you and, ---- you, and ----you. I quit a job that way once, only my hand wasn't in my pocket and I said it aloud. I walked into a board room and started pointing at each individual seperately and repeated the lines from above. If you do what I tell you silently no one will know. It will be your little secret. No one else will get hurt or offended. It may even be good therapy for you. After the funeral you can treat him like the dirt bag he is.