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  1. #1
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    Frown

    I have a friend going through it as we speak. They are in their 30's. He has the children. It seems that she found an internet boyfriend. She left to be with him, now she is 2 months behind on her car payment. He sells mobile homes. They are shacked up together. My friend says that he would take her back if he could trust her. He is a better man than me.

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    We have had some hard times just like everyone else I guess BUT we got married till death do us part so in order for it to end one of us must die











    Not that it would have to be a natural death

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    Never trust them 100% in the first place and never take them back unless it won't bother you if it they screw you over again.

    I was divorced after over twenty years of marriage. Other then if deaths were involved, I cannot imagine much worse then what my once lovely bride put me through.
    Government is a disease...
    ...masquerading as its own cure…
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    [i]Originally posted by oroy54.
    My friend says that he would take her back if he could trust her. [/B]

    Screw me once..... Shame on you.

    Screw me twice..... shame on ME!

    My doctor gave me six months to live, but when I couldn't pay the bill he gave me six months more.
    Walter Matthau

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    I'll take my bar flies and keep my car and my house, thanks

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    Originally posted by oroy54
    My friend says that he would take her back if he could trust her.
    I'll tell you what...no effin' way. That trust in gone, I'm sorry.

    I understand they have kids together, but if this girl is going to leave that guy...it better be for a better reason than meeting someone on the internet. Maybe he isn't being the man he's suppose to be, but she doesn't sound the woman she is supposed to be either by doing this. They should've worked this out before she met Mr. Internet...as I'm sure they both noticed prior problems in the relationship.

    They have kids together...this isn't some high school romance.


    I worked with a guy who had two kids with his girlfriend. They lived together. He told me she left one day, and found out that she was writing to some guy in jail. She just straight up left him and the kids behind for this guy. Time past...he left the company and went to work for another in the area. I heard not long ago he left the state to be with her again. Stupid, but it's his life.
    Get back to work.™

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    Originally posted by ct_hvac_tech
    I'll take my bar flies and keep my car and my house, thanks
    Yep

    Marraige.......never have, never will

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    Been there, lived through it

    Roy, your friend is in for a hard time and is going to need a good friend for quite some time. I don't know how close to him you arfe but if you are a good friend he'll need someone to lean on. If for nothing else, the kids sake he'll need to keep it together. I know, I've been through it before.

    He'll need help to keep it together for his self and the kids.

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    You know some guys think of woman just like they think of their ciggs.

    Why give up on something that I invested so much money on.

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    Originally posted by ct_hvac_tech
    I'll take my bar flies and keep my car and my house, thanks






    what color do you want?

    [Edited by dhvac on 09-14-2005 at 07:46 PM]

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    Originally posted by dhvac
    Originally posted by ct_hvac_tech
    I'll take my bar flies and keep my car and my house, thanks






    what color do you want?

    [Edited by dhvac on 09-14-2005 at 07:46 PM]
    I KNEW SOMEONE WAS GOING TO SAY THAT!

    Honestly, I thought refrtech was going to be the first to say it, but you beat him to it!

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    Originally posted by spotts
    [i]Originally posted by oroy54.
    My friend says that he would take her back if he could trust her.

    Screw me once..... Shame on you.

    Screw me twice..... shame on ME!

    [/B]
    That goes for hiring guys back after they quit you. Doesn't work out. It just makes it easier for them to quit you the second time.

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    Marriage worked out pretty good for me. The only way I would get remarried is if the War Dept. passed on. Maybe. BIG MAYBE!

    Can you imagine how hard it would be to break in a new set of in-laws?

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