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  1. #1
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    Well it's that time of year again, and once again I have no one to spend it with.

    As I mentioned recently in another post, I am 26, and still have had nothing moore than a first or second date. (Even those are few and far between.)

    My question is, where can you meet nice women my age who are not already involved with someone? You won't find anyone worth wasting your time with at bars, I know this first hand because I DJ at them.

    I even joined a dating service for a year that cost me $950 and had virtually **** for luck. It seems like everywhere I go, anyone who seems nice either wants nothing to do with me or is already taken. The ones do want anything to do with me are never the ones of my type.

    Looking back on my life 10 years ago, I remember picturing myself engaged or married, buying a house together, and having a kid or two. Now here I am, living with my sister, still TRYING to find someone who doesn't look the other way when I try to get to know them.


    I have two older sisters (One which I am living with) that both have kids, (Both of them are divorced, and no I don't want it to turn out that way for me). The oldest is a nephew, 14 and a niece, who is 4. It sucks for me, because if I ever do have kids, (which will probably never happen LOL)their cousins are going to be so much older than them, and they won't have anything in common.

    I don't know if I went wrong somewhere when I was younger, or if there is just no one on this planet meant for me, and I will end up one of the people who are still single when they are 60.


    Anyone else here in the same boat as me?

  2. #2
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    Talking

    Living with your sister! This is why you can never get past the 1st or 2nd date. You need your own place to start. If you meet a girl and hit it off, are you going to say "lets go back to my sisters place".
    Start going to church, libraries, join some groups/clubs, get active in your community.

    Don't be in such a hurry anyway. Alot of us married guys wish we could be in your shoes!!!!

  3. #3
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    Consider yourself lucky,just kidding.How high are you setting your standard?Let me just say for the record that
    as you get older those standard become less of a issue.

    26 man you got alot of time yet to fine miss right.But then
    again does she exist?

    Now days women are into the bad boy image,a bald head,little facial hair and a tattoo and you can get some play.Again might not be the play you're looking for but you never know,there might be a diamond in the ruff.

    I got lucky found my soul mate at 19,out pokin fun in it got serious.25 year now and she can still keep the fire burning.

    Happy hunting.






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    dont think so much into it..dont try ...
    and whats wrong with the bar chicks
    ..."church"chicks at 26???ummmmm
    if your not rich and not in collage..it sucks!!!
    get some friends!!!they have friends that have friends..
    get out of your sisters house....wtf dating service?


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    At work. Sucks to be in such a male dominated industry sometimes and on the road where you don't get to <b>really</b> get to know co-workers, or the girl upstairs in accounting, or anybody for that matter.

    But keep swinging at the ball. The chances of finding Ms. Right are much better with 100 first dates than they are with 10.

    You need a intro line that makes you irresistable. Wish I knew one.
    Ryan
    Maintenance Guy
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    naysayer, skeptic, conspiracy theorist

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    Thumbs up

    start to do commercial service instead of resisdential,plenty of office women waiting for mr.right to walk in "and sign your ticket"...DO NOT hook-up with anybody at work...danger... danger!nobody wants to start a relation at the end of the year....but in the spring and those commercial start-ups! how about that Eharmony.com guy or try this site http://www.lovecity.com
    "when in doubt...jump it out" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U1qEZHhJubY

  7. #7
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    I once found Ms. Right. I just didn’t know her first name was always
    "The bitterness of poor quality remains long after the sweetness of low price is forgotten". --Benjamin Franklin
    "Don't argue with an idiot, they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience". --Mark Twain
    http://www.campbellmechanical.com

  8. #8
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    Now adays you can order them right out of a catalogue. Theres russian girls, chech, polish and many others to choose from.
    " Kill a Commie for Mommy! "

    - Colonel David Hackworth (1930-2005), Korean War Vet

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    Take my wife Please.....No only joking. Most single chicks have their own apartment. Find a nicer apartment complex without lots of oil on the parking places and hang at the pool.

    Don't ever use the line:"May I tickle your ass with a feather? Particularly nasty weather!" Brother used that once and got slapped.

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    If you are a God fearing Christian, search the churches.
    Even if you are not, check out:
    http://www.eharmony.com/core/eharmony?cmd=home
    It seems to be the best at finding someone other than just a bed partner....


    Those who dance, appear insane to those who do not hear the music.
    Those who believe, appear ignorant to those who do not know God.

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    Smile

    I met my miss right at a Dance club. I think i used a pretty lame pick up line but it made her laugh

  12. #12
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    never ever get your money and your loving from the same place.
    i wanted to put a picture here

  13. #13
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    Just wait untill you start meeting nothing but scandlous woman that want nothing more than for you to knock them up for 18 yrs of suport and anything else they can get . even getting married you will find those that divorce about every 5 yrs and collect a good chunck when they do

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