Sometimes tough love is the only thing that works, my dad had to kick my older brother out of the house after he droped out of school and didn't bother to even look for a job. It was the wake up call my brother needed, in the end it all worked out my dad and brother get along great and my brother named his son after my dad. As of late me and my son have been bumping heads he keeps saying he can't wait till he's 18 so he can move out, because he can't live with our rules. I keep trying to tell him not to end up like me busting my ass at two jobs just to make a decent living, but some people have to be slap in the face by life before we learn.