Well as it turns out, my problem evaporated. I guess he wasnt going to be my perminent helper after all. I live too far from him to make it work, so it's up to me to find a helper for 10-11 bucks an hour, lol, wish me luck.
I aprieciate all the replys, as it turns out, I did come to the conclution that I was using poor judgment, but that is nothing new for me. I don't have training in "training" anyone. I did work as a suprovisor for three years and failed misserably at it. I have too many personality flaws to be a good partner or trainer for anyone. I might be a good helper in the boobie hatch though. Thanks again, and this is why I rely on you guys,..lol