Pope, don't gay up my thread. Just because your marriage of convenience failed when she found out about the "real" you, doesn't mean you should ignore your present boyfriend while posting your online fantasies about men. Nearly every post of yours has a guy in skimpy clothing in it, which us hetero males don't like to see. They have websites for your specific needs...Hvac-talk isn't one of them. Hvacpope the trouser pilot.
If everything was always done "by the book"....the book would never change.