seriously though,.. as a couple you should both be able to occupy yourselves with out one needing to entertain the other, thats what co-dependency is. She should have something she truly loves to do to occupy her time and when you both meet you bump uglys and go to bed, THATS the way it should be. She shouldnt have her claws into your money and whatever she does to keep her entertained should be supported by her. It may sound a little like room mates but it isnt because if your were just room mates you would be having multiple sexual partners in the house, whitch I should add, if you can get this sort of arrangment you are my hero.

[Edited by John(Chicago) on 05-29-2006 at 01:41 PM]