Just a thought.................

[Irishmist]

about the ones that support us in our careers. Our wives and family. Try to do something (many of you probably already do) for no particular reason other than because they are there to support you. Next time you have a day off (not on call) pack the family up and take a drive, go have a picnic, go to the local amusement park. No special reason (but really, a VERY special reason.)

I am blessed myself with a very strong support system. My kids, my wife, my family in general. It makes what I do that much more enjoyable and rewarding.

In reality, they make the same sacrifices you do. When you are called out in the middle of the night, when they are having dinner without you, because that is the only time you can meet with the homeowner, it is a sacrifice on their part as well.

Let them know, in no uncertain terms, that you appreciate their support. It is certainly a strain on ourselves to deal with the demands of our jobs, but recognize it is a strain on them as well.

Missing little league, school events, etc. are not to be taken lightly. I know a lot of you probably schedule your time accordingly and for that I applaud you. Some though, don't have that luxury.

Just let them know (don't wait for an anniversary or mothers day or one of the kids birthdays) that you appreciate them; their patience and support.

Sound corny? Sorry, but I guarantee THEY won't think it's corny.

All the best, John.

[The Penguin]

Don't forget to bring your wife home flowers randomly too. Or your daughter I bring my wife and daughter flowers and they like it allot.

[Irishmist]

Good chap!

However, if your wife is out in the workplace, be sure to have the flowers delivered to her work! Nothing says "I love, respect, and am proud of you" like making a big deal out of it in front of her friends and co-workers.

[too tall terry]

John,i believe you to be a smart man...........i could not agree with you more.......and thank you, for always trying to raise / set the standards for others to follow.....keep it up!!!!!!!!!

[ARPA]

Something I try to do constantly and consistantly. Good post John. Take care of the home life. Remebering that it comes first.
Can't tell ya how many hours are put in in being an owner, and you away from the family.
Well, owners know.

[spotts]

I took Shane and Bailey Fri night, all day Saturday and all day Sunday. Weather was mild, and I knew I would not be called out. Busy weekends for me are coming once the snow flies. This was a little pre-payment. She got alot of "Chick stuff that don't make since to me" out of the way. Garage sale, trip to Denver to visit family, etc...... And I found out Bailey, our 18 month old baby girl is really learning to communicate well.

[Diceman]

Now that John has retired, he watches a lot of Oprah.
:D

But we do forget the important things sometimes, until they are gone.